
Crab Apple
No. 10Feeling unclean or ashamed of yourself, and fixating on small imperfections
8 remedies
The largest group, covering low confidence, guilt, exhaustion, shock, bitterness and the feeling of being unclean.
Eight remedies sit here, more than in any other group, which tells you something about how many shapes low mood takes.
The differences matter. Feeling you are not good enough to try is not the same as feeling guilty for something you did. Being overwhelmed by responsibility you normally handle well is not the same as struggling on long past the point of exhaustion. Bitterness at unfairness is different again from the numbness that follows bad news.
Read the descriptions carefully before choosing. This is the group where people most often pick the remedy that matches the words rather than the feeling. And if things are genuinely heavy, please talk to a doctor as well.

Feeling unclean or ashamed of yourself, and fixating on small imperfections

Temporarily overwhelmed by responsibility you normally carry well

Expecting to fail, so not trying in the first place

Struggling on well past exhaustion because stopping is not an option

Guilt and self-blame, apologizing for things that were never your fault

Shock and grief, whether it happened this morning or years ago

Anguish at the end of your endurance, when it feels as though there is nothing left

Bitterness and resentment, the feeling that life has been unfair to you