Beech
No. 3Intolerance, finding other people's habits and mistakes genuinely irritating
5 remedies
Over-care for others
For strong personalities whose care for other people tips into control, criticism, or pressure.
The five remedies here describe people who are anything but passive. They care a great deal, and that care has started to press on the people around them.
It might be love that arrives with conditions attached, enthusiasm that will not let a subject drop, or certainty that shades into giving orders. It might be an eye for other people's faults that never switches off.
Rock Water is the interesting one. That pressure is aimed entirely at yourself, in the form of standards so strict that nothing is ever allowed to be enough.
The 5 remedies in this group
Chicory
No. 8Loving people closely, with an expectation of something back
Rock Water
No. 27Strict with yourself, holding to rules and standards that never let up
Vervain
No. 31Intense enthusiasm for a cause, and an inability to let it drop
Vine
No. 32Naturally in charge, and inclined to take over whether or not you were asked
Which remedy for control, criticism, or perfectionism?
Five remedies for care that has started to press on people. Four of them point outward. Rock Water is the one aimed squarely at yourself.
Other people's habits genuinely irritate you
Beech
The chewing, the spelling, the way they load the dishwasher. Small things that keep getting louder.
You give a lot, and you notice when it is not returned
Chicory
Love with conditions attached. The care is completely real, and so is the account being kept.
The strictness is aimed at yourself
Rock Water
Rules and standards you would never impose on anybody else, and never quite manage to meet.
You cannot let a subject drop
Vervain
Strong convictions, argued well past the point where anybody in the room is still listening.
You take over, asked or not
Vine
Naturally in charge. It usually is the fastest way, which is what makes it so hard to stop doing.