Agrimony
No. 1Hiding real worry behind a cheerful face
4 remedies
Oversensitive to others
For when other people's moods, opinions, or demands take up more room in you than your own.
These four remedies are about the boundary between you and everyone else, and what happens when it is too thin.
It shows up as the person who cannot say no and ends up doing everything, the person who hides how they really feel behind a cheerful front, and the person going through a change of circumstances who finds themselves knocked about by other people's opinions of it.
Holly sits here too, and it is the odd one out. Bach placed the harder feelings here, jealousy, suspicion, and anger, because they also come from being too affected by others, just pointed outwards instead of in.
The 4 remedies in this group
Which remedy for people pleasing?
Four remedies for the boundary between you and everybody else, and what happens when it is too thin. Three point inward, one points out.
You are cheerful in company and different alone
Agrimony
The joke gets made, the worry stays exactly where it was, and nobody asks because you seem fine.
You cannot say no
Centaury
You agree, then quietly resent it, and there is nothing left of the day that belongs to you.
You feel shut out, suspicious, or angry
Holly
The harder feelings, jealousy included. Bach put them here because they also come from being too affected by other people.
People keep having opinions about a change you are making
Walnut
A move, a new job, a breakup, or any decision that has everybody weighing in on it.