The big changes blend
Moving, a new job, an ending you chose or one that chose you. Change asks you to hold your own shape while everything around you is rearranged, and that is precisely the job the first remedy here was made for.
The five inside, and why each is there
Each one covers a different face of the same situation, and the blend is all of them together. Read any of them in full to see how much of it is yours, and buy them singly if you would rather mix your own.
WalnutThe link breaker, and the spine of the blend. For holding your own shape through the transition, and for the old ties that keep pulling backwards.Check price on Amazon(opens on Amazon in a new tab)
HoneysuckleFor the backwards pull of the life you just left, even one you were glad to leave.Check price on Amazon(opens on Amazon in a new tab)
Star of BethlehemFor the changes that arrived as a shock rather than a choice.Check price on Amazon(opens on Amazon in a new tab)
AspenFor the unnamed dread that fills in the gaps of a future you cannot picture yet.Check price on Amazon(opens on Amazon in a new tab)
GentianFor the setbacks along the way, the third fallen through apartment, the application that went nowhere.Check price on Amazon(opens on Amazon in a new tab)
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When people reach for it
- You are moving, starting somewhere new, or leaving somewhere old
- A relationship or a job has ended, by your choice or not
- You were sure of the decision until people started questioning it
- The old life keeps pulling at you even though the new one was the right call
How to take it
Two drops of each of the five into a 30ml bottle of spring water, four drops four times a day, through the weeks the change actually takes rather than just the day it happens on. That is the blend as it stands, and most transitions run longer than their paperwork.
Walnut is the constant here, and for a straightforward change it is often enough on its own. Keep the others as you recognize them: Honeysuckle if you find yourself looking back, Star of Bethlehem if the change landed on you rather than being chosen, Gentian once the setbacks start arriving.
The mixing guide walks through the whole method, bottle sizes and all.
Common questions
Which remedy is best for moving house?
Walnut, and it is one of the most traditional uses there is. It is the remedy for staying steady through transitions of every size, and a move is the textbook case. Honeysuckle earns its place in the same bottle if the old house keeps pulling at you after the boxes are unpacked.
What about a breakup?
The same blend fits, with the emphasis moved. Star of Bethlehem carries the shock of an ending you did not choose, Honeysuckle the endless replaying of what was, and Walnut the slow business of becoming a person with a different life. If bitterness is arriving too, Willow is worth reading.
I chose this change. Why is it still hard?
Because chosen changes still cost something, and the tradition never pretended otherwise. Walnut was made for exactly this: the right decision that still leaves you wobbly, especially when other people keep offering their opinions of it. Wanting the new life does not cancel missing the old one.
Is Walnut enough on its own?
Often, yes. If the change is chosen, expected and simply large, start with Walnut alone and see how far it carries you. The rest of the blend exists for the changes that arrive with shock, dread or a string of setbacks attached.
A blend is one answer for everyone
If what you are carrying is a pattern rather than a situation, a remedy chosen for how you actually feel will fit better. The quiz narrows the 38 in about a minute.